Co-Workers Less Likely To Cancel Your Wedding Than Cousins, Best Friends

No-show guests are a common issue for couples planning a wedding but you might be surprised to discover who is least - and most - likely not to turn up or to cancel at the last minute.

What wedding guests are likely to be no-shows?
It turns out that best friends and cousins (17.6% each) are the most likely types to cancel at the last minute, despite having already RSVPD their attendance. with 13.7% of acquaintances also failing to arrive. 

Surprisingly, besties, cousins and acquaintances were twice as likely to cancel as work colleagues, aunts and uncles, and "obligatory" guests (7.8% each). 

You can depend on close family to attend: no grandparents were reported as failing to attend, followed by only 3.9% of parents and step-parents, and siblings and/or their partners (5.8%).

Reasons for cancelling at the last minute
Couples said that no-show guests cancelled at the last minute because "they couldn't be bothered" (30%), because of illness or death (28%), double-booked (12%), forgot, or had a fight with the couple prior to the wedding (8% each), pregnancy (6%) or had flight/transport delays (4%) (which is one reason to weigh up destination weddings vs local weddings).

Couples aren't thrilled with guests who cancel at the last minute: 86.7% didn't have enough time to replace their no-shows with other guests, let alone change and update their now-obsolete seating plans.

One in four respondents (41.1%) had 1-2 guests who failed to turn up, a third (33.3%) had 3-5 missing guests, and 17.6% had 5-9 guests who cancelled at the last minutes.

Couples unfairly waste hundreds of dollars on guests who don't show at the last minute: 47% had a minimum guest spend of under $100 per head, 43.1% had to spend $101-$150 per guest while 7.8% spent over $150 per guest at their wedding.

What venues do about cancellations
Most couples (73%) were charged the full amount despite having empty seats at their guest tables.

However, of the venues which didn't charge the couple, of these, a quarter were cocktail receptions where they served finger food ("there was more to go around for everyone else") or sit-anywhere weddings where there was no assigned seating.

Other venues offered the couple a free dinner at a later date as compensation, while one replaced two children for every missing adult guest and another fed the wedding photographer in place of the missing guest.

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